Something Inspirational

Drawing from some of the most pivotal points in his life, Steve Jobs, chief executive officer and co-founder of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, urged graduates to pursue their dreams... Happy viewing...

I'm feeling grossed out

TGIF!!! I'm really grossed out!! I have been sick for the past two weeks, down with ulcer and fever...

These few days I feel tired and exhausted. I think the body is fighting to recover. I hope to rest over the weekend.

Vesshnu left for NPCC, 3 days 2 nite camp. It's strange that I didn't really miss him this time round. I guess it's all part of growing up. I sense that he is growing up and I need to give him the space too. Too much of attachment may lead to lots of expectations :-)

Yet, I'm looking forward to see him tomorrow...I'm already thinking what should I cook for him since he would have missed home cooked food.....mothers!!

Well....it got me thinking of what is balance sheet of life....

BALANCE SHEET OF LIFE.

The happiness of life is made of little things

- a smile, a hug,a moment of shared laughter

- its not the wealth you amass but what you give to others & the lives you touch that you take with you for eternity!

Our Birth is our Opening Balance!
Our Death is our Closing Balance!
Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities
Our Creative Ideas are our Assets
Heart is our Current Asset
Soul is our Fixed Asset
Brain is our Fixed Deposit
Thinking is our Current Account
Achievements are our Capital
Character & Morals, our Stock-in-Trade
Friends are our General Reserves
Values & Behaviour are our Goodwill
Patience is our Interest Earned
Love is our Dividend
Children are our Bonus Issues
Education is Brands / Patents
Knowledge is our Investment
Experience is our Premium Account

The Aim is to Tally the Balance Sheet Accurately.

The Goal is to get the Best Presented Accounts Award.

Holiday - Los Angeles

Las Vegas

On our way to Grand Canyon - we pass the dessert area

Sunset at Grand Canyon

Grand Canyon - can you see the river?

Close to sunset at Grand Canyon

Sky view from Universal Studio

Universal Studio

Another Sky view

Does it look familiar? Desperate Housewives!!

Am I back?

Guess, these days I'm getting tired of blogging. Perhaps because I have been away for sometime, lots of work or perhaps plainly lazy...

Let's see if I can update from now...

There is so much of happenings from Oct 08 till today? Where to begin???

Hmmm...I should post some nice pictures taken in Los Angeles and Las Vegas....

Hopefully, I will pick myself up from now....

See you....

What happened??

Hmmm....I just realised that I didn't blog for 5 weeks. What happened?? Guess, too many issues in the month of Sep 08....let's see

1. Vesshnu's birthday - celebrated on 2 Sep. It so sad! I posted all other birthdays with photos but missed Vesshnu's. We did a homam at home to celebrate his birthday. Kept it simple within family. We bought him MP4 player but confiscated it after a week because we felt that he was not focusing in his studies...bad parents!!

2. That week I was on leave, spent my time with both the boys,watched two movies with my husband. So I could not find time to blog..what an excuse :-)

3. The following week, I went for a scope...to check on my ulcer. It was quite bad that I was on medical leave the whole week too.

4. From that week onwards, I was busy with Bala Gurukulam. As there were only 3Sundays left for Bala Gurukulam - busy for the Ganesha Chaturthi, mass homam and presentation for children. So many things to prepare, even during lunch I had to work on these stuff.

5. Next was "Maid"...I had to find good agency whom can find a suitable maid to replace my current maid. Well, finally found one...likely to come in before Deepavali and hope she works for our family.

6. Work in office is increasing too, mult-task many issues.

7. Finally, preparing Vesshnu for PSLE..not an easy task to get boys to stay focus.

Well, I found some time today...thot' of saying something about the happenings.....By next week, everything should resolve..PSLE will be over..then my focus will be on Deepavali and the new maid...

Midlife Men

Hmm.... I came across this website: http://www.midlife-men.com/

I have been hearing complains afters complains from most of my friends, well that includes myself too...hahaha. Here is something to help IMS men...to read more, please visit the website.

15 ACTIONS YOU CAN TAKE TO HELP AN IMS (IRRITABLE MALE SYNDROME) MAN IN DENIAL

1. Recognize that he is hurting but feels stuck. Remember that his irritability and anger are covering over his hurt and fear.

2. Take a step back. You can't push him to change. He can make changes only when he is ready. You can step back only if you can keep yourself from panicking. This is a good time to tell someone you trust about what is going on.

3. Recognize your own feelings and fears about the situation. What are his actions triggering in you? Are you feeling angry? Do you want to fight back? Do you feel inadequate? Are you wondering what you did wrong? Are you afraid that he's going to leave - or that you will?

4. Slow down. Take care of yourself. Don't make any decisions while you are in a panic. Remind yourself that no matter how important your relationship is, it is not the only aspect of your life. There are other people who are important to you, and there are other things that give you pride and pleasure.

5. Find your own place of emotional safety so you don't let yourself feel battered by his stormy moods. Tell yourself over and over again, "I am not the target. These are his feelings of pain and powerlessness." What he is saying or doing, no matter how hurtful, is not a statement about you or your adequacy.

6. Never listen to what he thinks about you. Listen for how he feels. Judgment and blame are only cover-ups for his feelings and unmet needs. Words can be deeply wounding. When men experience the Irritable Male Syndrome, they may say things that can be very hurtful. For instance, an IMS male may say, "Damn it, can't you ever do anything right? Are you really that stupid?" You can think, "I must be a lousy wife" or "He's a vicious, mean bastard." Or you can say to yourself, "I wonder if he's feeling enraged because he needs support or comfort or understanding."

7. Let him know you are aware that he is in pain and you are open to listening to what is on his mind, when he is ready. Irritable males seem to be doing everything they can to push people away, yet they want more than anything to be understood. Like angry children, they want to know that you are there, that you won't be driven away, and that you will listen when they are ready.

8. Suggest walking and talking. Men often open up more easily when they are communicating "side by side" rather than "face to face." Sitting down and talking about what is going on might not be the best way to reach them. Men tend to be "doers," not "discussers." They often find it easier to talk when they are doing something (throwing a ball, fixing a car, walking) and when they are not looking into someone's eyes. To women, eye contact provides a feeling of nurturing and support. It often makes men feel that they have been put on the spot, so they become defensive and withdrawn.

9. Let him know that you care about him and that you know he cares about you. Ask him if he'd be willing to listen, without responding, for five minutes while you tell him how his irritability and blame make you feel. Share your own needs for safety, self-esteem, intimacy, and love.

10. Get help and support from friends and family. Don't try to solve the situation by yourself. You may feel ashamed to ask for help. You may want others to know the man in your life is acting the way he is. He may be telling you, directly or indirectly, not to tell anyone about what is going on. Don't give in to the fear; reach out to people. Be good to yourself.

11. Seek out a counselor, if necessary, who can help you work with your feelings and suggest ways to work with the IMS man. Sometimes you need more than the support of friends and family. Professional help may be necessary. Many times, people hold back, thinking, "If he won't go for help, what's the use?" Getting help for yourself may be the first step in breaking destructive cycles and getting help for him.

12. If you are seeing a counselor, request that he call the IMS man and ask him to come in to help you and the family. Often, a man has trouble asking for help for himself but will go in to help a woman and children. Even teens and young men will often go if they think their thoughts will be heard and they can help others. It helps a man's self-esteem to know that he is doing something good, even if he feels confused and angry inside.

13. Tell him, and remind yourself, that you are both on the same side. The problem isn't you or him. The problem is his irritability and anger that are caused by his unmet needs. Let him know that you are committed to working with him to find out what those needs are and to help him meet them.

14. Don't give up. Create an atmosphere of safety. Invite him to join you in finding ways to create a better relationship for you both. If he doesn't respond, pull back. Approach again at another time.

15. Be firm. Let him know you love him but you aren't going to give up on your own happiness. Tell him things need to change and you want him to join with you in making a life that works for both of you.

One thing for sure...it's not going to be easy with Indian Men..hahaha

Mom vs Child

Hmmm...this morning Vesshnu upset me over some issues....

Well....I guess this is what I got when I was reading some old e-mails from friends...how true....

Images Of Mother from the standpoint of a child at that age....

* 4 Years Of Age
My Mommy can do anything!

* 8 Years Of Age
My Mom knows a lot! A whole lot!

* 12 Years Of Age
My Mother doesn't really know quite everything

* 14 Years Of Age
Naturally, Mother doesn't know that, either

* 16 Years Of Age
Mother? She's hopelessly old-fashioned

* 18 Years Of Age
That old woman? She's way out of date!

* 25 Years Of Age
Well, she might know a little bit about it

* 35 Years Of Age
Before we decide, let's get Mom's opinion

* 45 Years Of Age
Wonder what Mom would have thought about it?

* 65 Years Of Age
Wish I could talk it over with Mom

A Leap Of Faith With a Little help from all of you !!!

I met a pretty lady who happen to be one of my student's mother. Somehow, we clicked well in our first meeting. After sometime she shared with me that she has a dream of publishing a book on her demise son. Initially, I thought it was just a miscarriage or something else but...

Last Friday when I called the parents to remind them about the outing on Sunday, I learnt that she lost her 2 1/2 years old son due to some rare genetics condition. She is so inspired to write a book about him. She is hoping to print about 30,000 books and use part of the proceed to sustain her society and bring help parents who have children with similar problem.

I came across many mothers who lost their children due to stillborn, accidents and miscarriage...
most of them still have not overcome from their past. This lady, Devi, is rare mother. She wants to make a difference. When I spoke to her, she is fully of enthusiasm to do something for her son. She even shared that at times she wants to discontinue but somehow someone will come forward to give a small token or encourage her not to stop.

Yesterday, she sent me an e-mail about her son, Satish. This is the last step to find someone to sponsor her and make her dream come true. It is a promise which she made to her son. When I read the story about her child, tears just rolled down. If that would have happen to me, I think I would be devastated.

For me.....
If someone old leaves, I take it as he or she has lived lived to the fullest.
If babies leaves the mother womb, it is the pain for the mother but he/she can overcome it when another child arrives
If a child leaves, it is the greatest pain....as the mother or father been there to nurture it, to see the smile, to see it utter the first word, to see the little tricks of the innocence ones....

Well, it's easy to say that soul is immortal, some say it reaches heaven, some say babies usually becomes angel...whatever

In reality, when this fatal happens to any parents....it's really painful.

Well, here is a little bit which I can do....below is his photo and the appeal by his mum.....

Would you like to make a difference in this ladies life?




Dear Friends,

I’m Devi. I am mother of the boy.

My son Satish had an incurable, most rare genetic condition. He lived for 2 and half years before leaving us on 30 Nov 2005.

For the past two years I have been writing his memoir and it’s in the final stages of publishing.

You're probably thinking that this is a very unusual way to start a letter and that I'm committing suicide by telling you about the saddest part of my life.



You may even know the feeling, as anyone who has lost their loved one should the pain and the unbearable circumstances to lose a child.

So why am I telling you all this...?

Well, because I think that you are worth every effort to be spending my valuable time with. I know that you will never cease to help someone who is trying to help others.

Losing a child and still wanting to help other parents …I have just started a society – Rare Genetics Network (Singapore) with a group of parents. And we need funds to sustain the society.
As for the first project to create awareness in the public, I am coming up with the memoir. We are hoping to print 30,000 copies. Some percentage of the sales of the book will be going to the society.

Please be a part of the story that gives hope and inspiration to anyone who is purchasing the book and receive the blessings of the children who are out there suffering from rare genetic conditions.

You could reach me at 31109888 / 98553161or or email me at – deviahru@gmail.com

This is not a prankster joke or a scam, this is a rare opportunity to help create awareness for children dying of rare genetic condition.

Warmest Regards
Ms Devi Ahru
President of Rare Genetics Network (Singapore)
Visit us at: http://www.raregenes.org/

To make your contributions to our society -
Please write the cheque to -
Rare Genetics Network (Singapore)

To make contribution to the publishing and launching of the memoir -
Please write the cheque to -
Sun Rise Empire Pte.Ltd.

Your contribution is very valuable to us. All sponsors names will be published in the book. (no matter what the amount is ....)

We are very grateful that you have taken your time to read this.

We will deliver the memoir to you ..personally if possible once published in December .

( We are aiming to print 30,000 copies )

Thanks a Million !! God Bless all Of US !!

Vitesh takes photos

Last week, we were getting ready to temple. Vitesh hardly wears indian traditional outfit, so when I put one on him, he got excited.


He told his brother "Is it nice Anna?"..Then Vesshnu said "Yes".

Vitesh then said "Come, let's take photo! Amma, take photo"

So I took our the camera to took a photograph of both the boys....he quickly hugged his Anna and posed to the camera. Then I took a photo with him.


It was very candid of him to say "Amma, let me take you with Anna".

He took the camera and took a shot of us. It was not that clear but I really admire his guts to come forward to such thing at 3 1/2 years.....


Take a look

I took the 1st photograph....

Veshnu took this....

Vitesh took this....

Interesting findings of creation with human

A friend sent me these info via e-mail. Found it interest, so decided to post it today. Look at Ishwara's creation....such amazing clues for us to ponder. Happy reading!!

A sliced Carrot looks like the human eye. The pupil, iris and radiating lines look just like the human eye... and YES, science now shows carrots greatly enhance blood flow to and function of the eyes.


A Tomato has four chambers and is red. The heart has four chambers and is red. All of the research shows tomatoes are loaded with lycopine and are indeed pure heart and blood food.




Grapes hang in a cluster that has the shape of the heart. Each grape looks like a blood cell and all of the research today shows grapes are also profound heart and blood vitalizing food.

A Walnut looks like a little brain, a left and right hemisphere, upper cerebrums and lower cerebellums. Even the wrinkles or folds on the nut are just like the neo-cortex. We now know walnuts help develop more than three (3) dozen neuron-transmitters for brain function.

Kidney Beans actually heal and help maintain kidney function and yes, they look exactly like the human kidneys.

Celery, Bok Choy, Rhubarb and many more look just like bones. These foods specifically target bone strength. Bones are 23% sodium and these foods are 23% sodium. If you don't have enough sodium in your diet, the body pulls it from the bones, thus making them weak. These foods replenish the skeletal needs of the body.

Avocadoes, Eggplant and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Today's research shows that when a woman eats one avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight, and prevents cervical cancers. And how profound is this? It takes exactly nine (9) months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit. There are over 14,000 photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (mo dern science has only studied and named about 141 of them)

Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when they grow. Figs increase the mobility of male sperm and increase the numbers of Sperm as well to overcome male sterility.

Sweet Potatoes look like the pancreas and actual ly bal ance the glycemic index of diabetics

Olives assist the health and function of the ovaries

Oranges, Grapefruits, and other Citrus fruits look just l ike the mammary glands of the female and actually assist the health of the breasts and the movement of lymph in and out of the breasts

Vesshnu in action

Vesshnu went for his Aikido grading - Red belt. My husband accompanied him. He commented that Vesshnu could not even do any somersault....guess his belly must have affected him badly...hehehe. It's time to shed some kilos. We have started going to the gym lately. He seems to enjoy his first experience in the gym. However, he prefers the park to the gym as he can run and do whatever he likes. Boys are boys....

Interesting People

Hmmm...I'm in the mood to analyse people these days....hope I'm not judging anyone.....

I know of a friend who has been a compulsive liar. I didn't realise until someone highlighted it to me. Since then, I started observing every movement. Well, I am really surprise how can one lie to the extreme to seek sympathy from people. Is there a need to lie? She claimed that she is lonely, somehow a slightest tear cause many hearts to go to her. She has a good life and almost anything she wants. Everyone sees her as an important person and yet she seems not happy. Well, I guess her definition of "happiness" is different. Thank god, I'm able to see all these without getting affected these days.

Another friend called me yesterday. She is disturbed because she badly wanted an upgrade and her employer approved for the internal interview. Unfortunately, just as she was all prepared to go all out for the interview with her new blouse etc, her employer broke the news that they want to offer the job to another colleague. She was very disappointed. Instead she was offered to take a loan for her degree programme for counselling which is not part of her job scope. Well, I told her to look at the positive side....it could be for better off. She seems to be convinced after talking to me 1/2 hour....hopefully she gets what she wants. Why are people so disturbed?

I came across an interesting blogger, he goes around commenting in other blogs and somehow people visits his blog too. However, his blog has only photos and photos but nothing much about him. When I'm free, I read what others comment about his works but somehow I'm not convinced if it's true or they are saying it to please him?? I am always puzzle about man with few words but express his nature through photos. What are they like? According to my lecturer when I did my psychology, these are the creative people who are not able to express their feeling to human, so they do it through painting, photos and pictures. Is it true?

I met another interesting lady....a very unique married woman who does not sleep with her husband and yet serve her husband without fail. She ensures his breakfast is prepared every morning, lunch is served if he is at home. She seems to be very contented. Her husband on the other hand too is fine with the arrangement. He only comes out to eat and he goes back into the room to watch his programme. They only communicate if there is a need. How can she survive? Can a man live like that forever. They are not old. If this happens to me, I probably divorce my husband or kill myself hahaha....

Finally, a new little gal student in the Balagurukulam class last Sun. She is so gentle, quiet and has such pleasant face. When I was teaching mantras and singing bhajans, she just tapped my lap and smiled at me. My heart just melt....she has a unique eyes.

So much of analysing people..maybe my mind is too free today or maybe I'm troubled today so I'm expressing myself through others..hahahaha....

Death

One of my aunt passed away last Sunday. She has been suffering from cancer and doctor gave up on her eventually. She was counting her days and finally she departed. It was my first time getting involve in a showering and dressing the preta (body). Everybody was involved right from showering, dressing and I could see the teamwork. It was indeed a smooth transition where everybody prayed for her atma (soul).

It was my first experience going to the new crematorium too. I was amazed to see the high tech instrument used for the funeral. Everything was automatic. After some rituals done at parlour, the coffin moves automatically on the track and the door automatically opens to the next section. People were requested to move to the viewing gallery. You can then watch the coffin moving on the track and it moves to a forklift. When the forklift moves to next section, the spot-light in on. There you can see the coffin travelling through into the oven and you are watching it from a higher level.

It was a glimpse moment of myself. Yes, I just felt like I am in the place, the process is a glimpse of an individual destination one day. It was a reflection. What am I doing here? What is the purpose and my thoughts just went on. Why do people cry when we are immortal? Why do we cling to the body, the name when we know the atma(soul) is indeed immortal. What happens if my love ones die before me....
Will I blame God? Will I say it as "God's Plan"? or will I accept it as the person's karma?

I can only conclude that Death is inevitable. Every birth has it's death. If we can live one more day to see the world, do right action, have pure thoughts and speak the truth. One more thing...think of death at least once daily because that will make ones mind prepared

This morning...my day started with this saying ....

Only with the birth of the body do our worldly relations start and end with its death. But in each birth our relation with the Lord remains unchanged. Our present experience seems to be right the opposite and we are trying to make ever-lasting relations in the never-lasting world and thereby casting a spell of sorrows for ourselves. Understand and realise that our relation with the Lord is primary and permanent and all others are secondary and impermanent. Each individual has a primary relation with the Lord, whether he knows and accepts it or not. Ignorance of this is the cause of our suffering. - Swami Tejomayananda

Vesshnu and Vitesh

Two cutie pies

Vitesh finally got a place in Sarada Kindergarten. The teachers were happy to see Vesshnu. Alice who was his music teacher is a the Vice Principal and Pushpa is the Principal. I'm very happy to see the both of them taking on the new roles. I could see Vesshnu too is excited to see his little brother going to "his" school.

Yesterday, something strange happened. Vesshnu said he is beginning to dislike his brother because of the maid. I was kind of puzzle. So, I asked him over and again what was really bothering him. Finally he broke. It seems, my maid doesn't allow Vesshnu to do anything for Vitesh. Guess, my maid wants to do things herself for her convenience. When children take up responsibility, it can turn messy. So, when he is angry or upset with the maid, he shows to his little brother.

I asked him, what will it be like if I showed the same tantrum to him when I'm angry or upset with people around me. So, finally he agreed that he will change provided he can have more responsibilities to take care his brother. We wants to feed, make milk and do other things for his cutie pie.

I told the maid to allow him to do whatever he likes but if he messes up, let me know instead of telling him off.

It's a reflection....when we grow up our mom, we help her take care our siblings in some way. Yet, as we grow up, the sibling have difference and sometimes they draw apart or even break their ties.

Nowadays children grow up with maids more than parents. As a parent, I'm try my best to give undivided attention when I'm at home. I wonder whether there will be love and understanding between siblings when they are adult. What is going to happen to future?

I'm glad that Vesshnu has a matured mind to identify his faults and able to voice out to me. I'm proud of him...

What's happening...

Hmmm....guess today is the a day that I could feel myself at some ease. I'm just bogged down with too much of "werk"...office work or hindu centre or home??? I would say everything. I have more professors to serve now....two more new PIs. Hmmm...got to help till end of this year. Next year we will be moving to our new building. At the new building each one of us will serve all the professors in that floor. Floor plan is still not finalised, so their are not sure which PI will be on which floor....so for now, "status quo" plus some new addition :-)

The moto "Be happy that you got a job!!"

Last Thursday brought Vitesh for Barney show...my husband got the front row tickets just because the cutie pie loves Barney. Unfortunately,Vitesh began to wail at Barney's appearance...it must have terrified him. Well, when the rest of the characters appeared, he was fine. We had fun all the back home...we walked through Suntec City and he was so excited with the fountains along the way...

A fun time with Vitesh

Last Sunday, I went to give another presentation in Youth Camp organised by Hindu Endowment Board, Hindu Centre and Youth Wing. I really had fun compared to giving presentation to adults..hehehe. They were a fun bunch though some didn't listen. Vesshnu helped in changin the slides in my presentation. He said he enjoyed the session. Later, he joined in some of the games and we ended up leaving at 11.30pm.

A fun time with Vesshnu


On Tuesday, both the boys and I went to watch The Kung-Fun Panda. Hilarious and awesome!! The movie makes you think how one can believe in himself...a panda being the dragon master?? Vitesh laughed so loud till everyone looked at him. It was really amusing. When we came out from the theatre it was raining cats and dogs. We had to ask the maid to bring us umbrella...thank god we are living close to these places
Fun with both boys

So much of fun time with children but seems I'm missing my time with my husband. He is so busy lately at work. Leaving to work at 5.45am and coming home at 11pm. We hardly spoke. He don't even have time to talk on the phone....lot of them are on leave this month and team is lack of manpower...so these guys have no choice. Hopefully, he could spent some time with us before the school re-opens.

Finally Relieved (I hope..)

Well, the last I blogged was on 14 May....I was really tied down with many many issues...

Graduation
Finally I graduated. My transcript was kind of impressive...mostly As and Bs. That's a good achievement for mother of two (not easy to juggle many things at a time) ~ Self praise..hehehe. Vesshnu was very excited about the graduation ceremony. He took so many photos for this event. Well, I guess I'm an inspiration for my son. Anyway, I really have not found time to upload the photos yet. Hope to do next week.

My presentation
I'm left with one more week to go for the end of my presentation. It's not an easy topic as I have to touch on history. Well, I can't memorise everything to narrate them by heart. I got feedback that my presentation was indeed good with lots of pictures but too wordy in some of the slides. What can I do?? I dinch choose the topic. It was given or rather what was left for me.... :(
Probably, if the topic is close to my heart, I could have presented better. It's wokay, I shall take it positively. Anyway, I'm reserved again for 7 and 8 June...there is a youth camp organised by Hindu Ctr, Hindu Endowment Board and NUS. I have to give another presentation similar to this topic but packaged it for youth. I think I prefer this compared to teaching adults.

UnniKrishnan Show
Last Friday I attended the Unnikrishnan show. It was great show and I must comment that this singer has so much of stamina. He sang through from 7.45pm to 10.45pm with only minutes of break in between. The media interviewed some of us including myself. So, I came on air on Monday's Tamil news. I'm proud to represent Hindu Centre and share my experiences as a volunteer :-).

It has been a busy day in office too. I'm helping 2 professors here preparing their grants...not that easy. Oh yes...I had to do budget too. In MAS, I used the number section more than the alphabets as I work on statistics but here I use more word. These few day I have been punching number on my calculator and my finger began to ache..hehehe...too much right...Lunancy, I know what you will think when you read this..hehehe!

Anyway, today is Friday, a relax day and tommorrow, my dear friend Deva, a guy from Hindu Ctr...saw him grow with me as teenager and later we learned together during Diploma in Hindu Teaching Course. He is a very nice guy, humble and pleasant. Tomorrow is his wedding reception with this beautiful Banglore gal Vineesha...all the best for this couple.

Okie, I think I took a long break...better get back to my work :-)

Happy Mother's Day

Glitterfy.com - Glitter Graphics






I was thinking how should I send my wishes this year....well, I started scanning thru my cupboard and computer for as many mom pictures as I can. Well, for those mothers I know and for the those I don't know....here is a little reflection...

We have been the best mother for our children no matter what. We took the trouble to raise them with care and love in midst of our personal issues. We have always been impartial though sometimes we compare our children :-).

For some of us, our hard work is paid by the respect and love shown by our children but there are some who are unfortunate. They are abandoned by their children.....why? Have they gone wrong in their upbringing or have the children failed to value their mom. Today, let's take a moment to bless the mothers we know and we don't know.....let us give some thoughts to the ones who are unfortunate and sent them our heartfelt blessings...Happy Mother's Day!!!!

I'm feeling very anxious

These days I can't bring myself to blog. I'm fully anxious over many things around me. Well, today I thought I should just write it somewhere and see if it helps.

1. Over the last 2 weeks, was very busy preparing the little ones for the last day of presentation. Finally, last Sunday it's ova. The little ones sang a Ganesha song. They look very cute. My son participated in a drama. He acted as mountain. That's very unlike of Vesshnu. I'm very pleased with his participation. We prepared goodie stuff for the effort by the children. The 'pot-luck' by parents too turn out well. The whole presentation went smoothly.

2. I'm now in midst of preparing my 1st public short course (4 classes in total) from 13th May onwards (every Tues). I'm scared to death as I'm going to do it on my own. Thinking about it already making me nervous. The topic "Hindu Temples outside India"

3. In between preparing for presentation, I also need to work with the syllabus team to come out with next semester's material for teachers. Thank god topics are identified...only compiling material. Deadline: 17th May

4. Vesshnu's SA1 begins next week. Need to give moral support and also help in Science too.

5. Besides all these, I'm also helping the Mitra Counselling group in their syllabus. It suppose to be group effort, but don't seem to be like that now. Thank god, they have requested by end June.

6. On 10th May, I'm graduating. Kind of excited about it and at the same time, anxious about the results. The group results are not out yet.

Everything falls in May..why?why?why? Stressssssssssssss

Okie, I feel better now...after thinking and listing. It helps :-) but not sure how long :-(

Okie, going back to work now.....

Morning Buzz

Very interesting...one of my blogger friend asked this question: why is people in train (MRT) always look very sulky, unhappy especially on Monday morning?

As what I posted whatever we see around us a mirror of us. If I'm unhappy one morning, I will walk out from home with black face and whoever I see in train I will get annoyed and frustrated. A slight hit on my shoulder or even a someone step on toe when you are not in the mood....that's it!!! you will see smoke out of my ears :-)

So again, it's not the people around us. It's us...how we perceive the people around us.

Honestly, it's not easy but when you practise this you will be amazed to see how we see the world around. You may get slight irritation but it will subside fast. I'm still learning but it helps. These days when I get into train, I bring along my number click. I recite some mantra from the time I board Bishan to Dhoby Ghaut. A short walk to NEL, then I will listen to some nice songs till Outram. Finally, in Outram I switch to my favourite radio channel till office. No time to see others but some time to stay focused :-)

The House of 1000 Mirrors,

Interesting.....came across this story after posting this morning......

Japanese folktale
Long ago in a small, far away village, there was place known as the House of 1000 Mirrors.

A small, happy little dog learned of this place and decided to visit. When he arrived, he bounced happily up the stairs to the doorway of the house. He looked through the doorway with his ears lifted high and his tail wagging as fast as it could. To his great surprise, he found himself staring at 1000 other happy little dogs with their tails wagging just as fast as his. He smiled a great smile, and was answered with 1000 great smiles just as warm and friendly. As he left the House, he thought to himself, "This is a wonderful place. I will come back and visit it often."

In this same village, another little dog, who was not quite as happy as the first one, decided to visit the house. He slowly climbed the stairs and hung his head low as he looked into the door. When he saw the 1000 unfriendly looking dogs staring back at him, he growled at them and was horrified to see 1000 little dogs growling back at him. As he left, he thought to himself, "That is a horrible place, and I will never go back there again."

All the faces in the world are mirrors.
What kind of reflections do you see in the faces of the people you meet?