My best friend

My dear friend,

You are always in my thots'. I cheerish every moment wif you and nothing can replace this friendship even we are far apart physically. You have taught me survive in this rough sea. I may not be around to share the frustration, sadness and happy moment but I'm always thinking about you.

It's the things in common that make friendship enjoyable, but it's the little differences that make them interesting...Todd Ruthman (this is frm little book on friendship which you gave me)

Hope this cherish you for this moment.

Don't worry, everything will be taken care and you will your dream home soon...cheer up baby!

Love you always....

Happy Wesak Day

Things are not quite right these days. I could not lift up my right hand lately and could feel some numbness. Yesterday took time to go for physiotherapy. Need to go for a few session to see the effect. Hope it recovers soon. The therapist said that my nerves could be rubbing against the densed spinal bones. Any how, just hope for the best. Well,it will be a good break for most of us tommorrow. Haf fun friends.

Happy Birthday my Darling

Dear Friends

Guess my mind is too placid till I can't think of anything to write. My apologies. My new place is wonderful and people here treat individual with respect. Just heard some sad frustrating stories from my old friends. It's really sad but what can be done? Human..they are full of "Egos"!! Suddenly, I felt like I'm going back to old place and my emotion stirred-up. Ooops! I got carried away and got emotional. All messed up.Come back Shan! It's reality. This is world!! Let's face it!!

Now, I'm draining out. Got to go home and re-charge.

Well, today is my darling's birthday. He has turned 46 yrs today!! A wonderful great man though get on my nerves at times. What to do? It's part of marriage cycle...hahaha!

Anyway...I gaf some thot'. If I have to be a writer for Chicken Soup...Husbands and do a collection of stories from around the married women of different race or religion, wonder what will be the women's frustration??

Happy Mothers day to all kind of mums out there!

Exam Week

Guess most mothers out there must be stressed by their child's exam this week. Getting them ready and all out for their mid year exam!!! Some interesting tips which I learnt during a talk last Saturday. How should we get them to sit for a period of time so that they are able to hold themselves during their exam? Get them to sit for 15 min to complete the task...be clear and specific about their task. Then give a break for the another 15 min. If they are able to keep to the 15 min, increase to 20 mins now..... then the break too increase to 20 mins. Work on this till they are able to sit for 45min. Start early....and you will achive ;-)

Feeling better

My dearest grandpa was admitted on 1 May...he has got pneumonia...early stage. The fever affected part of his brain that caused him to be disorientated. Haf been visiting him since then...things are much better now. Today, they made him walk around the ward for awhile. He also recognises us.

I met a person today....his name Mr Silva. He looks healthy and perfect. I wondered why he was admitted so I approached and asked about his health. I was taken aback when he said that he is counting his day! He is in the 4th stage of colon cancer. He seemed to be cool. He said he is taking morphin and takes 6 paracetamol tablets at one time dailly!

Then, there is this man who seemed helpless because he is aged and he has acute pneumonia. Both his hands are tied to the bed. Whenever, I talk to my grandpa....he turns and look at me. Once I approached and spoke to him. He can't speak and he had a sad look in his eye.......

I'm going to start again....what is life? It's time to reflect....(maybe I'm getting older...hehehe!)