THE FOUR CANDLES

The four candles burn slowly.The ambiance was so soft you could hear them talking.

The first one said:"I am peace!however nobody can keep me lit, I believe I will go out." It's flame rapidly dimishes and goes out completely.

The second one says:"I am faith! Most of all I am no longer indispensable, so it doesn't make any sense that I stay lit any longer". When it finished talking, a breeze softly blew on it putting it out.

Sadly,the third candle spoke in its turn:"I am love! I haven't got the strength to stay lit. People put me aside and dont understand my importance. They even forget to love those who are nearest to them." and waiting no longer it goes out.

Suddenly....a child enters the room and sees three candles not burning. "Why are you not burning? You are supposed to stay lit till the end." Saying this,the child begins to cry.

Then the fourth candle said:"Dont be afraid,while I am still burning we can re-light the other candles, I am HOPE!" with shining eyes,the child took the candle of hope and lit the other candles.

THE FLAME OF HOPE SHOULD NEVER GO OUT FROM YOUR LIFE.....AND THAT EACH OF US CAN MAINTAIN HOPE,FAITH,PEACE AND LOVE!!!!

U are my love

I suddenly fall in love with this song...not for the hero of course but the music. It's cool....

Inferiority and Self Esteem

The summary of my Monday's lesson:

General term from dictionary
Inferiority - Feeling below par
Self Esteem - to have great regard for; value highly; respect

What does psychology term refer to as inferiority and self-esteem?
Everyone of us are born with 100% of insecurity from birth. There is no baby from birth ask for milk without crying nor tells the parents/care-giver that they are able to take care of themselves. Our insecurity gradually reduces or increases depends on the love pail..this love pails consists of parents love, followed by love from extended family then social surroundings. Whatever happen our insecurity will be always there till we depart the world. If insecurity decreases..good, self esteem is high. If insecurity increase...hmm...inferiority will definitely crept in. Think about it???

Our childhood influences from five roots: our gender, family unity, parental attitude, social & economy position of family and health & appearance help us prepare for adolescent. Here our attitude towards ourselves, difficulties, others, other sex and life will determined our life style. From then we will be into aduthood to face the challenges among other people, occupation, love and sex. What a definition???

Thanks to my school who has made me understand how important childhood is. If parents give love to the brim...child becomes too dependent, if too little or none..then that's it. The child will find love in wrong places like drug, piercing themselves, tatooing, extreme make-over, indulge in sex and many others.....