Vitesh growing

Little brother is getting adorable day by day...

Vitesh is 31- to 32-month-old

How your toddler's growing:

Your child now has a solid awareness of how things should be according to adult rules and standards. He might be upset by deviations from the norm — like if someone has dessert before dinner or if a babysitter doesn't do things exactly as you would. Shortly, though, he'll learn that things don't always follow set patterns and that's okay.

How your life is changing:

As your child's awareness of other people continues to develop, he'll begin to alter his speech depending on who he's talking to. For instance, he'll begin to use different words and tones of voice with peers or adults. You may even notice that with younger children he uses simpler language.

The letter

The ancient envelope on the fridge

Could you see the rolled letter in the envelope. There a little stamp and it's held by 2 little magnets!!

Vesshnu

Last night after class, I came home tired and exhausted. My maid told me that my son has something for me on the fridge. I was kind of puzzled!! I took a closer look at it. He creatively prepared a letter and an envelope with kitchen towel. He told my maid it's the ancient way. What a creation. Thanks a lot baby!! You really made my day. I'm amazed about your creativity....maybe most "Virgos" are like that :-). I have posted his creation above..memories

Assignment

It's 6.00am and I'm still doing my assignment. It's so peaceful and mind is so clear though I'm like a zombie now. A good friend adviced me not to put my little one to sleep in the afternoon so that he will sleep early at night. Guess what happen, he knocked off in my lap at about 9pm. Happily I told my husband to bring him up to the room. He got up right on bed and cried for me...and my gundu husband..can laugh away. He can advice me to do my assignment with him. Surprising, he refused to go to husband. He stucked to me, I could not even get out of his sight. ARRRGGGG.....Told myself, nevermind...I will still get through it and be determined to do my assignment somehow. Finally, I managed to put the little to sleep at 12 midnite! Here I am happily doing my assignment with my cup of coffee and a mess of papers and books on my computer table. I'm listening to the same songs over 2 or 3 rounds I think. I'm just got the kick to do my assignment. I shall stay up till morning...wake my darling up to work, go marketing with my maid in case I fall off..hehehe. Then shall have a good hot shower and go to sleep. Thanks for the advice friend...should not have listen to you!!!

Lost of words

Nowadays my mind is filled up with so many issues that I can't find words to express my feelings. This morning, I saw this words of wisdom...

All successes and achievements in any line of work is the result of concentration.

Ninety percent of thought-force is wasted by the ordinary human being and therefore he is constantly committing blunders.

The trained man or mind never makes a mistake.

The more the power of concentration the greater the knowledge that is acquired.
- Swami Vivekananda

Told myself wake up...it's not end of the world, guess I must me tired with my assignments, thinking about my boys and as usual hindu centre..I really need to break free!!!!!!!!!!

Down the memory lane

Today is Friday morning...it's raining here. I'm sipping my coffee as I'm thinking what to write on my blog.....

Last Monday as usual, I went for my class at Ah Moy street. When I got off at Tanjong Pagar, saw a familiar face. "Hi Michelle! It's great to see you! She looks bright as ever. She was also surprise to see me around Tanjong Pagar...she fuzzed about work being sent to insurance dept now. Hmmm.....what can I say??? I told her that I don't run into Mr. %%% and she said no worries....that person never left early home..hehehe

Then, I went to IP's Watson to get some stuff.....to my amazement.....lots of changes including the makan makan......no more Delifrance, the building is under serious renovation. Everything has to changed within 4 months! Then I met another familiar face..."hi Safar!". He too was surprise to see me. As usual, he also complaint about work. I wonder if I would meet Mr big boss???

Hmmm.....I missed my best friend...we usually walk around this place during lunch, grabbing some bites from Burger King. We shop for our little ones. Years back, when I was pregnant we shop for maternity wear....she was more excited than me.

Sometimes during working hours, when we needed a break, we just walk to this place to get something to eat and my friend loves the "paus" from Solo...it's no longer there now.

It's usually fun to get gifts for our bosses during Christmas..it's was always last minute..we will rush to this place to get wrapping papers, little gifts and chocolates. The whole morning of Christmas eve will be busy with these stuffs.

Then the florist...we sent flowers to each on birthdays and sometimes when we are down.

Now she is busy in her office and I'm here. Guess, that's how life is. Good things will never stay long.............

Vitesh

Vitesh is turning 31 mths end of this month. He saying a few words now and trying to link 2 words.

What surprises me is that he has learnt to scold....must have learnt from us definitely. Yesterday, the big bro played some prank while Vitesh was bathing. He fell....he got soo furious that he started pointing finger and shouting...it almost like screaming. When confronted and ask him what happen.....he whinned. Language cannot be understood but expression....phew!! Future Vasantham Star..hehehe.

It makes me wonder how this innocence pies learn to pick habits like this...it is observational learning. I kept warning the gundus at home not to give wrong signals to little ones...hmmm. Hope Vitesh doesn't do this when he goes to school....

All relationship are destined to fail

What you guys think about this title?

When my lecturer shared this last week, I was not convinced initially but he added "All relationship are destined to fail unless you maintained it"...it made me think. Yes!! It's true. Husband-Wife, Parent-Child, Sibblings even Friends..if we don't maintain it, it will fail. Why this happens? B'cos we are all born insecurity....

So, we got to work hard to sustain it.

This is the most challenging task as there is a lot of teamwork involved. When it drains one out but not the other...we give up!! and move to something more interesting. On the hand moving to something else will also won't satisfy us. We will find some faults there too.

One thing, with god's grace...no matter what, we can help to sustain the relationship as long as we want it. Let's focus as our aim in life!!