It's been a year

I have been very very busy these few days. Most of my professors are in town. Too many meetings, seminars and talks to arrange. Good news is that they will all dissappear by end of this week and I'll be a free bird for the next 2 weeks..yeah!!!

I had so much to blog but could not find time to shed my thots'. Well, I can proudly say that I have been blogging for the past 1 year....

• I have learn new things through blogging
• Met new friends
• Shared new info while blogging
• Express my emotions through blogging

I must specially thank my beloved friend Ratna who actually showed me how to blog as we were parting around this time last year...phew!!! Time really flies...I left my old place almost a year.

I remember in my 1st blog, I mentioned about my wedding anniversary....it just passed again..another year of bonding.

Every year, every moment there is something we reflect upon...LIFE. Last night my husband asked me an interesting question...."What is life?" I smiled at him and asked why...he said "Life is meaningless" ...hmm interesting right??

"Is life meaningless??" I asked him. He gave me a cool stare..hahaha.

Well, I smiled and said "life is like reflection...what you think at that moment, see at that moment, feel at that moment......that is you". At this moment, you are feeling life is meaningless because some experiences or thoughts made you think like that...nothin' else"

He must have thought I'm some nerd...he continued to stare at me. Okie, I told myself...don't say too much Shan..it will backfire.

So, calmly told him that whatever he is thinking and feeling takes place in the mind through a system called "Brain". If we are objective enough to see what's happening around us and why it particularly happens to "ME"...we will be able to find the answer because "WE HOLD THE KEY TO OUR MIND". I continued....we are all mould by own unique values and believes base on our upbringing through parents, teachers, society, religion and friends. Sometimes we try to impose our values and believes to others because we think it's good for them but it does not work that way. What works for us may not work for other...why? Because individual have their own "ego" including children.

Then I concluded and said "I don't to preach religion and psychology to you because you will start to tease me"....hehehe.

He smiled and said that it makes sense but it is not easy to change. Yes, I agree with him but also told him that change begins from one who wants it. Then you will see the difference :-)

Guess....that will let him ponder about the statement he made.

Coming back...hopefully I'm able to blog the next few days

Lunch time now...cheerio!!